In this case, you’re texting them because you don’t want to lose touch with them. Especially if you’re wanting something else other than contact from them. It is also good to give them a reason why you’re texting them after such a long time. How about a cup of coffee this Friday evening?” “I know we haven’t heard from each other in a long while, but I don’t want to completely lose touch with you. And lastly, show them you care to know how they’re doing. Wanting to reach out, and missing them is a good excuse itself, so just go for it.īe straightforward, let them know that you’re aware of the time distance since the last time you talked, let them know you miss them. If you really do want to reach out, don’t be afraid to. “I know it’s been such a long time, and I miss your energy, especially today. When you send this one, you show that you’re being honest, you’re being appreciative for the times you had together, AND you’re giving it a shot/an opportunity to reconnect with them.
#If you havent done time dont talk like you have how to
This is more of a text on how to talk to an old friend you haven’t heard from in a while. “I feel nostalgic for the amazing times we had together, how about we catch up this Friday?” No matter who broke the contact between you.įor flirting then you have to know his behavior before you sending him flirty texts.Whatever your relation to the person is/was.For whatever reason you two grew apart – whether it was a horrible argument, the contact vanished naturally, or you had a date, planned for the next one but never had it, now it’s been months or years….I tried to include as many variables of text messages as possible, and I’m sure you’ll find something helpful. For whatever reason you’re trying to text them – for the sake of good times, wanting to know they’re ok, wanting to catch up with them, or any other reason.The examples of the text messages will be helpful to you: How to text someone you haven’t talked to in a while – 23 examples you can use for any story you had with them That’s exactly why you want to be confident, and just be you with pure energy and genuine intentions. However your approach to the situation is, will, in one way or another, reflect on your text. It’s a person that you haven’t seen/talked to in a while, however long or short that while has been it is important that you speak/text with confidence. Speak with confidence, be you – they feel and know it If yours are genuine reasons, like missing the person or wanting to know if they’re ok, or anything else that is genuine, then absolutely text them! Move your strength and energy to what your heart leads them to. Just think about it and understand the reasons. Think about it, not too much, not too little. Hence, it wouldn’t be the best idea to text them yet.īe honest with yourself: What is the actual reason you’re wanting to contact them? If you’re coming from a place of peace, nostalgia, and good vibes, then go for it! On the other hand, if you’re coming from a place of guilt, shame, negative vibes then you will most probably project those feelings to the person too. How do you feel like expressing yourself when you think of that person? Listen to yourself, and notice how you feel. Just think of them, and imagine them being there, or having a conversation with them.
How do you feel about this – how does the thought of contacting them make you feel? Listen and read as much as you like… But when it comes to deciding on texting them after a long time, it is entirely up to you.
Don’t let someone else make the decision for you
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